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Tough Times Never Last, But Tough People Do!

Power of positivity can bring us out from anxiety, confusion, social withdrawal, and depression during (COVID-19) pandemic

The coronavirus (COVID-19) pandemic is currently a global health threat attributed to negatively affecting the mental health and well-being of people globally. Stressful life events, such as those instigated by the coronavirus pandemic, have significant influence on an individual’s psychological functioning and well-being, and can be a catalyst for psychological problems including anxiety, confusion, social withdrawal, and depression. Although the experience of coronavirus stress may have a negative impact on the mental health and well-being of some individuals, this might not be the case for all people. Individual differences in resilience, coping and perceptions may influence how a person responds to adversarial experiences. Optimism and pessimism are conceptualized as important constructs in coping with uncontrollable life events. Optimism-pessimism is considered to be a generalized version of the confidence-doubt dichotomy pertaining to life in general, rather than to just a specific issue.

In these difficult days, hard times and stressful periods, during Pandemic, it’s very important to learn to cope with it . Although it’s not easy to spot the silver linings, having a positive attitude can help us push through rough patches. As Robert H. Schuller said “Tough Times Never Last, But Tough People Do.”

I believe that optimism and positivity can bring the life to happiness even in the face of adversity. Optimism, however, opens us up to new ideas, new experiences and new possibilities. It frees us up to consider new options and change our businesses, and lives, for the better. It helps us look to the future and create expansive, evolving realities.

We just need to learn few things:

Firstly, failure is not the end, in fact it is often the beginning of something great. When things are good, we coast along without making any quantum leaps. When things go bad, our world gets shaken up, which requires us to grow, see new things and start afresh.

Secondly, pessimism makes us contract and shy away from new or adventurous things. It causes us to fixate on the negative possibilities and be trapped by fear of failure.

Thirdly, dwelling on negativity isn’t healthy. Not only are optimists generally happier and less stressed, but also they tend to have healthier hearts.

Additionally, optimism  is contagious. Having an upbeat attitude can inspire everyone around us. Attitude is everything. Optimistic leaders can help motivate and engage their employees. A positive team will be driven to accomplish goals and work together to move things forward.

Lastly there is no better alternative to optimism. Pessimism doesn’t achieve much, and doesn’t have any benefits over optimism. Being optimistic obviously doesn’t mean seeing rainbows 24-7. Everything won’t always be great. But optimism helps us see new opportunities, learn from different situations, and keep moving.

I am adding the positive quotations with an intention to provide inspiration, motivation and positivity to lead a happier life. I hope my this little attempt will plant, nurture and grow positivity energy in the hearts and minds of my readers.

Prophet Muhammad( PBUH )was a beacon of hope for those around him. His ever-beaming smile would exude optimism. His words, whether of warning or of good news, inspired positive action.

Here is a selection of some powerful sayings of the Prophet to help us stay positive and productive in all circumstances.

  1. Be a Bearer of Good News

“Give glad tidings, and do not scare people away. Make things easy, and do not make things difficult” (Abu Dawud).

  1. Optimism is an Act of Worship

“Hoping for good is also an act of worship of Allah” (Tirmidhi and Hakim).

“There is no infection and there are no bad omens, but I like optimism… [Optimism is] a good word.”

  1. Be Positive & Certain About Your Dua (Supplication)

“Supplicate Allah Almighty and be certain that He will answer your prayer” (Tirmidhi).

  1. Strong Believer Doesn’t Make Excuses

“The strong believer is better and more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, although there is good in each. Desire that which will bring you benefit, and seek help from Allah and do not give way to incapacity. If something happens to you, do not say, ‘If only I had done such-and-such.’ Rather say, ‘The decree of Allah. He does what He will.’ Otherwise you will open yourself up to the action of Shaitan” (Muslim).

  1. Do Good Regardless of Others’ Treatment

“Do not be people without minds of your own, saying that if others treat you well you will treat them well and that if they do wrong you will do wrong. But (instead) accustom yourselves to do good if people do good and not to do wrong if they do evil” (Tirmidhi).

  1. Be Patient & Positive in Difficult Times

“Whoever abstains from asking others, Allah will make him contented, and whoever tries to make himself self-sufficient, Allah will make him self-sufficient. And whoever remains patient, Allah will make him patient. Nobody can be given a blessing better and greater than patience” (Bukhari).

  1. Think Positive about God

“Allah the Most High said, ‘I am as My servant thinks (expects) I am. I am with him when he mentions Me. If he mentions Me to himself, I mention him to Myself; and if he mentions Me in an assembly, I mention him in an assembly greater than it. If he draws near to Me a hand’s length, I draw near to him an arm’s length. And if he comes to Me walking, I go to him at speed’” (Hadith Qudsi).

  1. Istighfar Makes a Way Out

“Whoever does a lot of Istighfar (asking for forgiveness), Allah will provide him a way out of each concern he has, and will solve all his troubles, and will provide him with livelihood from sources that were not known to him” (Ahmad).

  1. Affair of a Believer is always Positive

“Wondrous is the affair of the believer for there is good for him in every matter and this is not the case with anyone except the believer. If he is happy, then he thanks Allah and thus there is good for him. If he is harmed, then he shows patience and thus there is good for him” (Muslim).

  1. Hope Prevails Over Fear at the Time of Death

Once our Prophet, peace be upon him, went to a young man who was on his death bed and asked him ‘How do you feel?’ The young man said, ‘I have much hope from Allah but I also fear for my sins’. The Prophet said, ‘The believer who has these two ideas simultaneously at such time, Allah fulfills his hopes and grants him security from fear’ (Tirmidhi).

  1. Be Positive & Productive till Your Last Breath

“If the Day of Resurrection were established upon one of you, while he has in his hand a sapling (small plant), then let him plant it.” (Ahmad).

Quotations of Roy T. Bennett

“Attitude is a choice. Happiness is a choice. Optimism is a choice. Kindness is a choice. Giving is a choice. Respect is a choice. Whatever choice you make makes you. Choose wisely.”

“Don’t be pushed around by the fears in your mind. Be led by the dreams in your heart. “

“Instead of worrying about what you cannot control, shift your energy to what you can create. “

“Take responsibility of your own happiness, never put it in other people’s hands. “

“Be the reason someone smiles. Be the reason someone feels loved and believes in the goodness in people. “

“Be mindful. Be grateful. Be positive. Be true. Be kind. “

“Accept yourself, love yourself, and keep moving forward. If you want to fly, you have to give up what weighs you down. “

“It’s only after you’ve stepped outside your comfort zone that you begin to change, grow, and transform. “

“More smiling, less worrying. More compassion, less judgment. More blessed, less stressed. More love, less hate. “

“Live the Life of Your Dreams: Be brave enough to live the life of your dreams according to your vision and purpose instead of the expectations and opinions of others. “

“The past is a place of reference, not a place of residence; the past is a place of learning, not a place of living. “

“Do what is right, not what is easy nor what is popular. “

“Believe in yourself. You are braver than you think, more talented than you know, and capable of more than you imagine. “

“Don’t waste your time in anger, regrets, worries, and grudges. Life is too short to be unhappy. “

“Don’t let the expectations and opinions of other people affect your decisions. It’s your life, not theirs. Do what matters most to you; do what makes you feel alive and happy. Don’t let the expectations and ideas of others limit who you are. If you let others tell you who you are, you are living their reality — not yours. There is more to life than pleasing people. There is much more to life than following others’ prescribed path. There is so much more to life than what you experience right now. You need to decide who you are for yourself. Become a whole being. Adventure.

Don’t just learn, experience.

Don’t just read, absorb.

Don’t just change, transform.

Don’t just relate, advocate.

Don’t just promise, prove.

Don’t just criticize, encourage.

Don’t just think, ponder.

Don’t just take, give.

Don’t just see, feel.

Don’t just dream, do.

Don’t just hear, listen.

Don’t just talk, act.

Don’t just tell, show.

Don’t just exist, live. “

“Even if you cannot change all the people around you, you can change the people you choose to be around. Life is too short to waste your time on people who don’t respect, appreciate, and value you. Spend your life with people who make you smile, laugh, and feel loved. “

“You cannot control the behavior of others, but you can always choose how you respond to it“

“Make improvements, not excuses. “

“Your hardest times often lead to the greatest moments of your life. Keep going. Tough situations build strong people in the end. “

“Pursue what catches your heart, , not what catches your eyes. “

“Be grateful for what you already have while you pursue your goals.

If you aren’t grateful for what you already have, what makes you think you would be happy with more. “

“Believe in your heart that you’re meant to live a life full of passion, purpose, magic and miracles.“

“A random act of kindness, no matter how small, can make a tremendous impact on someone else’s life. “

“Success is not how high you have climbed, but how you make a positive difference to the world. “

“Follow your heart, listen to your inner voice, stop caring about what others think. “

“Life is about accepting the challenges along the way, choosing to keep moving forward, and savoring the journey. “

“Do not fear failure but rather fear not“

“Never lose hope. Storms make people stronger and never last forever“

“Great things happen to those who don’t stop believing, trying, learning, and being grateful. “

“You are not rich until you have a rich heart“

“Stop comparing yourself to other people, just choose to be happy and live your own life. “

 

“Do not let the memories of your past limit the potential of your future. There are no limits to what you can achieve on your journey through life, except in your mind. “

“Let the improvement of yourself keep you so busy that you have no time to criticize others. “

Imtiaz Ahmed Mughal

Written by Imtiaz Ahmed Mughal

The Author is an Editor & Manager Kashmir Affairs at Global Affairs.

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